is it over again?
July 29, 2012 in blog
so in first grade me and my bff katie were good friends but we didn\’t talk during the summer after school ended and the next year we were in different classes and we didn\’t really talk. fourth grade (last year) was the only class that we had since 1st. we were bff\’s then too. i am worried because this summer we barley saw each other and it was for a fundraiser. even at that she was mad at me because i didn\’t ask my mom about a sleepover in time! i have sent her a bunch of email\’s and she\’s only responded to one that said that july had been really busy and no sleepover dates would work. ): i will see her next weekend for another fundraiser and i\’m afraid she won\’t like me! me and her have skyped once and i have called her a few times and i don\’t want 2nd grade to repeat!! please what do i do what if i\’m not in her class??????? help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on July 29, 2012
PLEASE HELP!!!!! i am desperate!!!! ): ): ): help!
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on July 29, 2012
HELP @puglover101 help! youre on now!!! please??
jok3r said on July 29, 2012
You shouldn’t feel so bad about it. I’m going Into the 8th grade and I’ve lost lots of good friends. Best friends actually. It happens, so don’t be so worried. But if you do want to stay in touch I gues just try to just be more fun with her. Sometimes you have to let go of people because not since you don’t care but they don’t .
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on July 29, 2012
wow thanks you really helped. NOT!!!
jok3r said on July 29, 2012
Well sorry
jok3r said on July 29, 2012
I was just trying to help, and I lost my best friend because she thought I wasn’t girly enough and was always embarrassed by me when I tried to talk to her and start a relationship again.
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on July 29, 2012
well i don’t want that to happen to ME so at least TRY and help!!!!! i’m sorry about your friend but i really need help right now!!
jok3r said on July 31, 2012
Thx
cupcakegirl123 said on July 29, 2012
my bff is named katie lol funny but…i think that you should exchange phone numbers that you can get ahold of eachother on so that you can talk over the phone about sleepover…and when you see her again tell her that you r sorry for whatever you did and then ask her for her phone number. then tell her that you would love to have a sleepover sometime soon
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on July 29, 2012
i already HAVE her number! we are like bffs!
cupcakegirl123 said on July 30, 2012
well then
stefan1 said on July 30, 2012
If she’s mad at something so small like you not seeing her everyday, and treats you like that, I say she doesnt deserve your friendship. I’m sorry if that’s not what you wanna hear right now but, sometimes the truth just hurts. I’m sorry, but if it was me, that’s how I would look at the problem.
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on July 30, 2012
its not HER fault she always goes on vacations
stefan1 said on July 30, 2012
Keep trying, and don’t give up. I can tell you too were really good friends at one point.
stefan1 said on July 30, 2012
And i wasn’t trying to be mean… sorry
cupcakegirl123 said on July 30, 2012
i agree with @stehan1
cupcakegirl123 said on July 31, 2012
stefan1
puglover101 said on July 30, 2012
Maybe try being nice or invited her over to a sleepover sometime. Even if YOU can’t, ask her if you can come to her house. If she says no, you can tell that’s the reason you can’t come. If she says yes, then go. Simple. If she has new friends, and a new personality, then move on. Find better friends. Don’t worry, I’m headed to the fifth grade, too. Good luck!
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on July 30, 2012
thank you! actually the first one with some decent advice not to be mean…
Peanut Butter Jelly said on July 30, 2012
Sirry but you Are not being nice at all! To anyone!
lolzies said on July 30, 2012
Hey gurrly I’ve lost a lot of good friends over the years because of things like what you are going through with your friend, and I hope I can help you a little- well a lot. Sometimes you just have to suck up to her- I know that sounds suckish but try to compliment her a lot. Say things like “I want to have a sleepover, and you’re the first one I’m asking!” Make her feel special- but don’t let her head get TOO big! Or, if she’s not that kind of person, you could invite her to do lots of cool things with you, such as bowling, making cookies (which is a surprisingly good way to bond with your galpals- try it, everyone!), going to a lake or pool, having sleepovers, etc. You’ll end up finding something you both like to do- and have fun at the same time! Hope I helped! ;D