Update on I Need Help, My Boyfriend is Ignoring Me
Ok, Here’s the update on I Need Help My Boyfriend is Ignoring Me:
I texted his Ex and said: Hey, can you do me a favor?.
Her: What oh and Lane isnt dating you.
Me: What?
Me: What do you mean???
Her: I talked to Lane the other day. I forgot to text you. My phone was being dumb.He said he wasn’t dating you
Me: Okay…What else did he say?
Me: Please, I need to know!
Her: Nothing really.
Me: Ok. Thanks.
Her: N prob. Whats the favor
Me: Nevermind.
Her: What was it
Me: Nothing!
Her: Tellll meeee
Me: It was about Lane. Just forget it.
Her: Please tell me….
Me: I was gonna ask u 2 say somethin to him, but since we’re not dating, just forget it. Please.
Her: Fine
Me: Its just that its hard for me not to break down in front of my grandma.
Her: Ohhh
Me: Yea
Her: Well, it’ll get better
Me: I’m not sure I belive that
Her: He didnt talk to you for a month dude
Me: More like 2
Her: Thats even worse.
Me: I already know that!
Her: Then it’ll get better
Me: I’m still not sure.
Her: Well I am
Me:
Her: What?
Me: Its just that Ive been thru alot this year…
Her: Like??
Me: Didnt I tell you????
Her: No
Me: I had to put down my horse, how Lane treated me, drama at school, and some stuff I cant tell u about…
Her: Well… You’re life is dramatic
Me: Duh!
End of convo. This all happened when I texted her.
**btw: Lane is my boyfriend, well, my EX boyfriend now.(idk if he knows that, Yet. if i see him at enrollment at school tomoro I might just tell him)**
hearts321 said on August 9, 2012
a lot of things happen in life and what happened to you just plain sucks.. and if her life isn’t dramatic then lucky her then huh? but don’t worry, if he ignores you and doesn’t treat you like a princess then he isn’t worth it from the very beginning. You are worth so much more than the way he treated you. Just saying…
stefan1 said on August 9, 2012
Thanks
I took that as Lane and I’s break up.
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on August 9, 2012
i’m sorry…i hope you can talk to him tomorrow and figure out whats happening…
stefan1 said on August 10, 2012
I didnt see him, and Im actually happy about that. Idk why, tho.
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on August 10, 2012
oh well then idk what to say lol
glitter2602 said on August 9, 2012
oh… I’m sorry about that hey do you even know if she was telling the truth maybe she just told you that cuz she wanted him back and if not that boy wasn’t nice because he told her to tell you again sorry about the boy stuff friend me if you need to talk my friends tell me im good to talk to
-glitter2602
stefan1 said on August 10, 2012
Thanks. I guess Gabby could be lying. She’s done it before. *sigh*
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on August 10, 2012
@stefan1 true, but isn’t she your bff? maybe you should call your boyfriend (or ex maybe) and leave a message saying “hey, um lane. this is ___ and gabby told me we aren’t together anymore so i guess this is goodbye. okay well bye.” and wait and see what happens
stefan1 said on August 10, 2012
I’ll think about it. And, yea, she is my bff. But, you dont know Gabby.
stefan1 said on August 10, 2012
ok, I called and it said the person you are trying to call is not excepting calls right now. Please Try again later. Should I just text him???? @gale’s-snowy-owl
stefan1 said on August 10, 2012
Or should I try and send him a voicemail??
gale\'s-snowy-owl said on August 12, 2012
voice mail i think
borntobefree100 said on August 10, 2012
well i think she’s a b for not waiting for him to say it. it’s always worse finding out from some one else then the person themselves
carmie8 said on August 10, 2012
Stefan1, Pull him a aside or send him a text ( I recommend the first one though.) Tell him that if he wanted to stop going out than he should told you not acted like a hormonally teen and ignored you. Ask him why he wasn’t up front and why he wanted too break up with you in the first place. Dont seem needy. Dont stalk him. Dont cry in front of him. He can use this as a weak stop and manipulate you. Just keep in mind that if he knew what was going on and still chose to give you the cold shoulder he may not be the one for you.
stefan1 said on August 10, 2012
@carmie8 I’ll text him. I won’t see him for at least another 6 days.
stefan1 said on August 12, 2012
He never texted me back!! Grr…
carmie8 said on August 16, 2012
Ignore that. Talk to him. If he refuses call him a hormonally teen that is afraid to face his feelings (truthfully arent we all Lol! Oprah!!!) That may get his attention. Walk behind him for a sec explaining how you think it was immature of him to act like a bum head (or a jerk your choice of language.)
stefan1 said on August 16, 2012
Im gonna have to see him tomorrow……..
carmie8 said on August 16, 2012
Okay relax girl you got this.
stefan1 said on August 16, 2012
Im not sure…… Gabby might have been lying…. Oh gosh, I don’t feel good
carmie8 said on August 16, 2012
Don’t worry. you may not want to accuse him right out. Start the convo in a neutral way. ‘Hey I haven’t talked to you in a bit you okay?’ ( i mean it could be something happened. in the family)
stefan1 said on August 16, 2012
Saw him today, he ignored me whenever I saw him in the hallways, so I didn’t get to talk to him. Today was my first day at school. Every time I saw him, I found myself PRAYING he would walk up to me and start talking to me, like nothing happened. Well, at least we didn’t have any classes together………… I think this is his way of breakin up with me….. Well, at least I have Taylor. If you havent seen my post about HIM here’s the link:
http://www.coke-or-pepsi.com/2012/08/%e2%99%a5%e2%99%a5im-in-love%e2%99%a5%e2%99%a5/